| | Yesterday the kids chose a book about Evolution from the library. As we read it together it hit me that we've never discussed creation theories or theories of evolution. Kai lit up like a light bulb as he read and got so excited about the connections between us and apes and the whole miraculous wonder of the universe.
He asked me, "If those other creatures have been on this planet so much longer than humans, then how come humans know what the names of those creatures are?". He pondered it for a while and then answered it for himself. It was magical watching his mind work. It also clarified some of why waldorf is proving to not be a good fit for him. (There are many other reasons but I won't go into them here). There is so little space in his situation right now for questioning, for inquiring, for figuring out your own answers. He's a natural scientist, artist, musician, inventor, but there's no space to express or explore that. We've been told over and over that the work of waldorf in first grade is social, not academic. That's a big huge disappointment to him, since he is so ready and excited to learn, and the social experience is proving to not be so positive. Personally I don't see why the two things have to be mutually exclusive.
Today he spent the morning in a progressive, independent school. He worked on math problems and was tested in his reading skills. He came out buzzing with enthusiasm and spent the rest of the day doing math work sheets.
So, yes, we're exploring our options YET again. It's exhausting and upsetting, but here we are. It may be this independent school, it may be public school, it may be sticking it out at waldorf, it may be some form of home schooling. The school we fell most in love with was a montessori that doesn't have any spots for this year.
I guess the silver lining is seeing that a bad experience has not turned him off school or learning altogether, and that he is so able to articulate what he needs. I want to make sure over everything else that we keep that alive and don't limit him. We have some time to find the right fit... |
| | Posted 12/3/2008 1:11 AM - 79 Views - 4 eProps - 3 comments
- recommend
    - recs0
- share
- email
 - sent0
Give eProps or Post a Comment |